Summer songs are like summer love – they make everything a little buzzier. Some make you want to dance (even if you’re alone in your room), some make you remember a moment, or person, from summers past. The best make your heart – and your feet – skip a beat.
We asked Jysters to share the songs that are doing it for them this summer. Here’s some of what we heard – and what we’ll be listening to:
Formation (Because, well, it’s Beyoncé, and you might as well just give in.)
Basketball (Lil Bow Wow. Back in the day before lost the Lil.)
Summertime (DJ Jazzy Jeff and the Fresh Prince. A little nostalgia for Will Smith’s early days, much?)
Can’t Stop the Feeling (Justin Timberlake. C’mon, what’s summer without a little JT?!?)
Running Out of Moonlight (Randy Hauser. Because we are ready to roll down the windows.)
Walking on Sunshine (Katrina and the Waves. We dare you not to get up move!)
The Jyst: Wanna know which song got the most votes? Go to Jyst to find out – and tell us what you’re listening to this summer.
They cheated. Or maybe they cheated. They want forgiveness. They want you to trust them again. Should you forgive, forget or flame out? As the great Beyoncé asks, “What’s worse, looking crazy or jealous?” (What’s best: Creating killer music. But that’s another story.)
The truth is, there is no single right answer when it comes to forgiving betrayal. Some people work through it. Some can’t. The only universality is that it hurts like hell – and living in a fog of suspicion is toxic.
One Jyst user posted: “I found my husband had been calling and texting a woman from work. I confronted him and he promised to stop but I still get the urge to put a spying app on his phone. Is that bad?” Once again, we turn to the Bible of Bey (yeah, we’ll admit it, we’re obsessed). “You can taste dishonesty, it’s all over your breath as you pass it off so cavalier…My lonely ear/Pressed against the walls of your world.”
Other a Jysters wonder how to trust again after their SO admits to an affair and begs forgiveness. Is two years of a relationship worth one lapse? Is ten? The math is different for everyone.
The Jyst: Users all agree that if you are involved with a chronic cheater, you should leave. Immediately. But decisions are split (life and love are complicated, after all) when it comes to a single lapse. What do you think? Let us know on Jyst.